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You are on vacation, traveling in a foreign country. What a country it is! You just love it. Everything is so different, so quaint, so picturesque, so charming, so idyllic. It seems like a little piece of heaven right here on earth. "Oh, how nice it would be to live here", you think. The beautiful mountain panoramas, the enchanting ocean beaches, the quaint little houses, the friendly people, the pastoral scenes. Oh, how you would love to live here. It is a fairyland, paradise! The old churches, the plazas, the flower filled patios, the quaint outdoor markets. It is overwhelming to the senses. So different, so enchanting! You are just so fascinated and delighted with the land. But appearances can be deceiving. Life has its illusions and mirages. And the fact is there is a whole lot about this country that you don't know. You think it is all just what you see but it isn't. For example: Although you don't know it, foreigners are being kidnapped and held for ransom -- with police involvement. In fact, this is a poor dysfunctional country filled with corruption and crime. Things aren't the same here as they are back home. The culture here is different. People here just don't think as you are accustomed to thinking. These people live by a totally different mentality. Their concept of time is completely different than yours. Efficiency is an alien concept to their culture. No one is ever on time for an appointment. That is just their culture, their way. The systems and institutions are inefficient, stupidly run, and thoroughly exasperating. Getting anything done of an official nature, whether it be a driver's license, a passport or whatever, is an ordeal, a matter of a day spent standing in a succession of long lines, and quite likely involving paying out a little extra money here and there to help things along. There are all kinds of inane rules and regulations and one is always having to get some new document or get a stamp on something or other and there is always some problem about doing it, but not a problem that can't be very easily fixed by passing a small amount of money to the official. The buses and trains are never on time. The telephone system is up at times and down at other times. The same with the electric system. All is aggravation. People can't pay their utility bills by mail. They have to go to the different offices and spend hours in long lines every month to pay them. The mail system is unreliable, trusted by no one. Crime and violent crime is rampant and when people get robbed or murdered they don't even bother to inform the police. Everyone knows that is a waste of time -- the police are lazy, ineffectual and won't do anything. Poor people from the country come to the big city looking for jobs, but can't find them. They have to eat, become desperate, and turn to robbery and crime. So there are few jobs and lots of crime. The criminals work in teams, identify their prey, and do their little routine with great art and precision. And imagine this: While you are visiting the country a couple of policemen knock at your door. They inform you that they are going to search your room. They very quickly "discover" some bags of cocaine in a dresser drawer and then slap handcuffs on you. You are going to be arrested and will certainly spend years in a rathole of a prison cell. However, you soon learn that there is a way out of this. For a sum of $20,000 they will just escort you out of the country and forget the entire thing. You say that you will stay and fight it. They tell you that the judge is a special friend of theirs and you will surely be found guilty. This is a country ruled by corruption, ignorance, incompetence and cultural stupidity. Bribery and governmental corruption is universal, a way of life, a cultural norm. Corruption is so universal and thoroughly ingrained that it forces everyone into participation. To get almost anything done you must pay money under the table. Everyone is "on the take" from police officer to high government official. The people are marked by impulsiveness, disorganization and laziness. It is a society where fistfights can ensue over who will yield on a road or sidewalk. Government jobs are all obtained through connections, often family connections, and are often filled by the unqualified, incompetent and ignorant. The impulsive, rash, troubled, under-educated brother of a high government official soon has a high job of substantial responsibility. The children of top government officials are suddenly found in top jobs immediately upon finishing school and in no time at all are living in big mansions with servants and are entertaining lavishly. The 19 year old son of the new head of customs is suddenly driving Mercedes cars and throwing big parties. Large sums of foreign aid of various kinds coming into the country pass through a gantlet of corrupt officials, with each official shamelessly, creatively, artfully stealing just as much of it as he possibly can -- with the consequence that the sums dwindle to nearly nothing by the time they arrive at their destination (like a great river that gradually dwindles to a tiny stream by the time it gets to its destination because of all the water that has been diverted from it along its way). The country has just come back from the brink of bankruptcy, been baled out by huge international loans, and officialdom is living better than it ever has, thriving in the great influx of money. The country is a democracy with about twenty political parties. No party ever stays in power for long. Most government jobs are political and there is a great changeover in personnel with each new administration. All the new people know that they won't be long in their job, their time is limited, that they must take full advantage of their limited time to enrich themselves as much as they possibly can. The country has a small ruling class, a circle of wealthy aristocratic families, that clings tenaciously to power. The most of the rest of the people are poor. What is the point? Well, the point is this: Life has its illusions. Things are not always what they seem. Appearances can be deceiving. Life is full of illusions and deceptions. Whether one finds himself enchanted by some foreign land or enchanted by some member of the opposite sex, life can have its surprises. There is often more than immediately meets the eye. And the full truth often only reveals itself with the passage of time. For the dreamer this can be a sort of lesson. That idyllic place of your dreams may have something more behind it than what you see. And that person who has just swept you off your feet may be like that enchanted land of your dreams. Things in life come in packages -- where you have to take the entire package. Sometimes the package contains more than what you see. Aug 2004
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