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A debt I owe to my father


It has just occurred to me that there is something about my character that I probably owe to my father, to the way he raised me. It is a thing that I had never thought about before. It seemed to be agreed between my father and mother that Father would be in charge of the raising of my brother and I and my mother would be in charge of raising my sister. My father was a very strong person and hard worker. And he wanted his boys to grow up to be men and not sissies. (He would have had no good opinion of a son who was a sissy.) And he wanted his sons to grow up knowing how to work. He started me off working on our farm at an age of about six. I am thinking that I owe something very important to him for this way I was raised. He was always fair with me. I can’t accuse him of ever being unreasonable or unfair with me. But he expected his boys to work. He was authoritarian and I would not have dared to disobey him. I did what he told me. My mother, on the other hand, was a kind, soft, understanding person. But she was not the sort who would have forced her child to work. She was perhaps too soft and understanding in this regard, the sort who would have made excuses for them for not working. She didn’t demand enough. My Father demanded a lot. By demanding a lot, he gave me a habit of being accustomed to working, to industriousness. It became a character trait. He trained me to be a man and men have courage, strength of character, will power.


I have noted that the children of orientals in this country all seem to become doctors, lawyers, or some other professional while the children of American parents all become waiters and waitresses. See Oriental children become doctors while American children become waiters . I believe the reason lies completely in the way they are raised. Oriental parents raise their children to study hard. They start forming their children’s mind and character in this way from an early age.


Def. Industriousness. Constantly, regularly, or habitually active or occupied


Def. Will power. Ability to control oneself; determination; strength or firmness of mind.


Syn. continence, restraint, self-command, self-containment, self-control, self-discipline, self-government, self-mastery, self-possession, self-restraint, will



19 Sept 2021



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